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    Friday, July 22, 2005

    A Reflection of Life

    Today, I did a lot of reflecting. I do that from time to time. I sit back and reflect on my entire life and say, "Ok, so what have I accomplished so far and what do I need to do to get where I need to be?" It's funny how life is so fickle. In your teens you think you know everything. You hit your 20's and now you're grown, you can drink and party. Mid-20's you go through this phase of trying to find yourself because at this point you are not who you thought you were. You emerge on 30 and low and behold -- the things you thought you knew all went down the drain because now you are really grown and there is no room for mistakes. At 34 there is much more wisdom than a 16 year old, more responsibility than at 23 and way more confidence than at 26. This is where I am and I like it a lot.


    At 7/22/2005 10:23 PM, Blogger Don Tate II said...

    And at 40, things start breakin' down.


    At 7/23/2005 12:05 AM, Blogger NIKKI said...

    Im glad your at a happy point in your life! Im definately at the semi-confused point, you hit everything on the nose, thanks for comments on my blog sweets


    At 7/23/2005 2:54 PM, Blogger NjDivaGirl said...

    Don...it breaks down as in fall apart? It'll be all over? Please don't tell me that! LOL


    At 7/23/2005 2:54 PM, Blogger NjDivaGirl said...

    Hi Nikki,
    It get's better at least as far as I can tell...;)


    At 7/23/2005 11:36 PM, Blogger DeeDee said...

    Shoot.. I'm 34 and i wish i felt grown.. I just feel like a kid with a child.. Still don't feel as grown as some of my aunts seemed when they were teen-agers. Can't wait to get there.. And thanks for stopping by my blog.. *smile*


    At 7/26/2005 10:19 AM, Blogger NjDivaGirl said...

    Deedee, that's the cool part. I don't feel old at all..I feel like a big kid but with benefits...that's the grown feeling..LOL


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